I would like to be quite clear: Femslash is not the place to go for a lot of comments and kudos, which people deserve to be warned about. And while yes, we would always like more - just like everyone else - that doesn't mean that we're desperate for them. I feel like you've gotten the wrong idea about what I said.

But I don't think the point of this post is really that beccaelizabeth wants out of dudeslash fandom.

It sounds to me like beccaelizabeth isn't saying that m/m is bad, or the fact that all m/m is, by nature, male-focused, is the bad thing. It sounds to me like what is being said is that certain m/m portions of fandom have written women in a misogynist fashion, and that, in and of itself, is a habit that some m/m slashers have gotten into, and that habit is wrong. Not that m/m in and of itself is wrong.