also, Andrew telling people to move on is just odd. This the same Andrew who thought Warren would come back for/to him. And really believed that Spike would be back. So he would have had to change fairly fundamentally to be able to take this advice himself. I can see him parrotting something Buffy told him... oh, of course, I mentioned on S3 that Buffy would plain not have believed Andrew if he said that Spike was back, because believing Andrew is delusional again is way easier than believing Spike was back and didnt tell her himself. SO if he said about Spike one more time, he would have got the 'move on' speech from BUFFY, about Andrew and Spike, but maybe trying to be kind and saying its about Buffy and Spike, or just Andrew rewriting it in his head or something. So now I can figure the move on bit because those arent Andrew's words. Right.