Even dimensions have corners :) In an ideal world, I don't see why anyone would want to play in the corners when they can skip merrily all over the field, but in reality even simple things like "I like mixed pronouns and I like to change my look from day to day" gets so much hate and hurt from outside people, that it's exhausting (and often dangerous); it's easier to say "I'm a guy" and do the rest of who you really want to be when the Other People have gone.
you always gotta walk a tightrope for power. And you always gotta keep other people who want power away from your rope. That's how power and how humans work. (not you. Power hungry people with the worst of anxieties, the ones that make them hurt other people)
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Even dimensions have corners :)
In an ideal world, I don't see why anyone would want to play in the corners when they can skip merrily all over the field, but in reality even simple things like "I like mixed pronouns and I like to change my look from day to day" gets so much hate and hurt from outside people, that it's exhausting (and often dangerous); it's easier to say "I'm a guy" and do the rest of who you really want to be when the Other People have gone.
you always gotta walk a tightrope for power. And you always gotta keep other people who want power away from your rope. That's how power and how humans work.
(not you. Power hungry people with the worst of anxieties, the ones that make them hurt other people)