beccaelizabeth: my Watcher tattoo in blue, plus Be in red Buffy style font (Default)
I am really abidingly annoyed with places that list all the ways to contact them
often as accessability features
and when you email them
they tell you
to
phone.

That's it, that's all, that's 100% of what they can do by email,
tell you to use the phone.

*sigh*

Nice dream

Sep. 27th, 2019 08:52 am
beccaelizabeth: my Watcher tattoo in blue, plus Be in red Buffy style font (Default)
I dreamed I was playing rpgs around a table again.

I was twice the age of anyone else in the game, and they kept bouncing the story around so quickly, starting fights, finishing fights, moving on. And I was like, completely lost, and ugh.

So I just had to say out loud, I am autistic spectrum, I can't always talk, I can't keep up because words hard, and I'll do dumbass things like get lost on the character sheet or misunderstand what you just said and do something super random. And just like, it was so embarrassing, I was sure I just couldn't play any more.

But! What made it a nice dream: they just immediately swung into making things work better for me. They did formal turn taking around the table and made sure to check in with me what my character was doing. They used the figures for more stuff, so there's like visuals to go with the words. And they found me little cards to go with my spells, with a promise to do more to make actions simpler later.

Instant mid game reasonable accommodations.

Which all made it more like a board game, but, freeform play was still a thing.

And I'd been watching them fight their way through a haunted house and getting more depressed because oh look dungeon crawl again why do I even have half these skills and stuff

but then I asked for more background on the house and such, so we could try and figure out what all this haunted house stuff was even about, and try and make peace?

And the GM just grinned and got a particular model out and the new character was like 'well finally, all these centuries and NOW somebody asks!'

like achievement unlocked: we are not just combat.

And I didnlt know if he'd always planned it that way, but it was the most welcoming thing he could have done.



So that was a Good Dream
because sure, there's all the anxiety making of freeform play with stacks of rules, but
the group wanted to include me enough they just refocused everything to make sure I could play.


I liked that.

Accessable

Aug. 3rd, 2019 04:46 am
beccaelizabeth: my Watcher tattoo in blue, plus Be in red Buffy style font (Default)
I seen some posts go past on tumblr about accessability,
and it made me think again about how frustrating it is even for me getting to activities.

Like, I like the Ribs of Beef, but it is not wheelchair accessable, it's not good for people with sticks, the loos are down stairs and the seats are up steps, and I am not a fan of stairs. And as for my sensory needs... it's fine if there's no one else there and the owners are willing to turn the tv off. Which means it is very seldom suitable. And yet, still better than several alternatives we tried.

The other pubs we tried have steps and LOUD music and... just didn't work.

The venues for the board games group used to be fine, nice accessible hall, but now it's up stairs that made my helper go on about risk assessments and keep repeating they don't think is good for me to do that ever again. I agree, tall concrete stairs, very faily. No good for sticks or wheels or even vaguely wobbly people. There was a stairlift but no idea how to use it. Don't know where the bathrooms were but can be pretty sure they have the same level of access.

When people switch venues they just don't have access in mind. Convenience for them, yes, whether or not people can get in, not so much, no.

I kind of want to start with the venue. Find a good place. Just, wheelchair access, plenty of space in the loo, big tables. I'm not keen on alcohol but it seems a key component to some social groups. And food is nice. Start with all that and you've narrowed down places that are even open in the evening by a Lot. Like, seriously, A Lot. I don't know where we'd go. But if we start from there, and then decide what to do in said venue, we haven't slammed the door on anyone before we get started.

... no group for my interests in Norwich I can currently think of does that.

... well that's a bit rubbish.

I mean Waterstones cafe is quite nice and there's a lift but I don't know what the disabled loos are like and I know I gave up on the book group because I couldn't hear past the background noise.

The Forum is nice but the main bit echoes. Also I have no idea if there's bits available as a meeting place for like a half dozen people or small groups.

I guess I don't know many places.

But I keep trying to join groups and then finding them inaccessible and then just, like, giving up
and I'm thinking today I could try saying so instead.

Or starting my own thing
but organising things requires a level of reliability and extroversion I do not possess.

Oh well.
beccaelizabeth: my Watcher tattoo in blue, plus Be in red Buffy style font (Default)
I just actually had to read with my own eyes
"if your disability makes you bad at a thing just put in extra effort or don't do it"
as an argument against basic accessability features

and now I want to Hulk smash
but a certain kind of person thinks that means they win the argument

so I will just... breathe... and...

*grrrrrrrrrrrrr*



Like, stairs are accessability features. There are rules about the height of steps and provision of handrails and not just putting in a ladder and calling it good. I don't know anybody arguing against that. Because they use stairs. So they notice actually having them is good.

So why do you get some people actually out loud arguing against the provision of optional features that they won't ever use or even have to notice are there

on the basis that disabled people could just try harder?

they could just jump to the first floor or stay on the ground
but if someone took the stairs away do you think they'd live by their own argument?

you'd never hear the end of it.




Just, make things accessable
ffs
it's simply better design for everyone.
beccaelizabeth: my Watcher tattoo in blue, plus Be in red Buffy style font (Default)
Fortean Times this month has a section in white letters on a black background. Which sounds reasonable but the printing isn't quite crisp enough to pull it off - makes the letters skinny fuzzy and pretty much unreadable. I mean with a strong light and a magnifying glass, maybe. And I don't think it's just my eyes. Probably. Just another example of a color scheme that must have looked fine on the computer.

It's going straight to my 'web page of woe! arrrgh!' overused routine of grrr.

I know people have lots of different monitors with lots of different settings, and I know the colors look entirely different on each of my laptops and my desktop, and I know some people have the brightness/contrast turned up a lot higher (sometimes when I have a headache the brightness goes down to single figures and I can still read it. One time with a headache I could read by the glow from the TV when it had a theoretically black screen. Old TV though.) So I have to assume that everyone who builds a webpage can see it. But really, black on white is classic for a *reason*.

And white on black only works on a nice crisp screen, not a fuzzy printout.


/rant

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